OK,  I’m not one who usually complains about things that happen. I tend to move right along and make things work. What I’ve noticed is that when these real challenging challenges happens – they REALLY happen – and the thing that truly makes them ‘unhelpful’ is the unexpected money, time and energy that goes with it and the stress that goes with the money, time and energy. For me it has been one thing after another, after another, after another, to the point when I literally w